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The Dynamic of Being Human

three simple “cards” to make the invisible more visible

Function

Protection

Function

 The part of you that focuses, gets things done, solves problems, and stays present to a task.

Emotion

Protection

Function

 The part of you that feels fear, sadness, joy, anger, surprise, shame, and more.

Protection

Protection

Protection

 The part of you that steps in quickly to help you feel safe through responses such as fight, flight, freeze, fawn, fix, or figure-it-out.

You were created with emotions for a reason. You were never meant to be ruled by emotions, and you were never meant to live without them.


At Fern & Audrey LLC, we begin by helping make the invisible more visible. Many people know they are reacting, shutting down, feeling overwhelmed, or struggling in relationships, but they do not yet have language for what is happening inside.


The Dynamic of Being Human gives simple language for understanding internal experience through three basic roles: Function, Emotion, and Protection.

These Roles Are Not Good or Bad

Function, Emotion, and Protection are normal and necessary. Each one helps you navigate life.

Each one helps you navigate life. 


Healthy regulation is not about silencing emotion, shutting down protection, or forcing yourself to function. It is about learning to recognize WHICH role is active, WHY it may have shown up, and HOW to move between these internal responses with more awareness and choice.


The language of your heart is expressed through emotions, behaviors, and beliefs. As you begin to understand that language, you can better understand your reactions, your relationships, and the protective patterns that may have formed through earlier experiences.

I love being able to better understand my own emotions and behaviors as well as those of the people I interact with.  It not only helps me with loving myself better, but also loving those who are close to me and all who God puts in my path.


M.B.

How Our Curriculum Unpacks This

Relationship First

Children (and the child-in-us) grow through safe connection. We begin with attunement—how we come close without crowding and how we repair when things rupture.

Emotion Literacy

We name emotions, locate them in the body, and practice allowing them without getting swept away. You’ll learn what each emotion is trying to do for you.

Regulation That’s Doable

We teach practical regulation that fits inside real life—breath, body, and thought tools you can use in a meeting, in the car, or at bedtime.

The Three Cards in Motion

With the Function, Emotion, and Protection cards, you’ll track your internal shifts in real time. This turns “Why am I like this?” into “Oh, this part is here to help.”

Choice After Protection

Protection is fast and often loud. We help you thank it, slow it, and choose a next step that aligns with your values—not just your reflex.

Where do I start?

Ready to go deeper?

Ready to go deeper?

Imagine confronting your emotional pain directly, understanding that it often stems from the beliefs you've formed about yourself through your past traumatic experiences. 

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Ready to go deeper?

Ready to go deeper?

Ready to go deeper?

Get ready to unravel the treasure of being human and embark on a transformative learning experience.  Course 1: The Treasure of ME Being Human

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Education FAQs

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Education FAQs

What will this class help me accomplish? How long does the class take? How is the online class structured? How do the weekly small groups and monthly sessions work?

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Working with Fern & Audrey: Laura's Story

Meet Laura! As a survivor of severe childhood trauma, Laura enrolled in Fern & Audrey's 1st course. Laura gives her perspective on how the course impacted her journey and prepared her for in-person time with Fern & Audrey. 


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