
The part of you that focuses, gets things done, and stays present to a task.

The part of you that feels: fear, sadness, joy, anger, surprise, shame, and more.

The part of you that steps in fast to keep you safe (fight, flight, freeze, fawn, fix, or figure-it-out).
They are normal, necessary roles that help you navigate life. Healthy regulation isn’t about silencing any one card—it’s about learning when each role is active, why it showed up, and how to move between them with choice instead of reflex.
The language of your heart is a language of emotions, behaviors and beliefs. You were created with emotions—for a reason. You were never meant to be ruled by emotions, and you were never meant to live without them.
M.B.

Children (and the child-in-us) grow through safe connection. We begin with attunement—how we come close without crowding and how we repair when things rupture.
We name emotions, locate them in the body, and practice allowing them without getting swept away. You’ll learn what each emotion is trying to do for you.
We teach practical regulation that fits inside real life—breath, body, and thought tools you can use in a meeting, in the car, or at bedtime.
With the Function, Emotion, and Protection cards, you’ll track your internal shifts in real time. This turns “Why am I like this?” into “Oh, this part is here to help.”
Protection is fast and often loud. We help you thank it, slow it, and choose a next step that aligns with your values—not just your reflex.

Imagine confronting your emotional pain directly, understanding that it often stems from the beliefs you've formed about yourself through your past traumatic experiences.
Get ready to unravel the treasure of being human and embark on a transformative learning experience. Our next Course 1: The Treasure of ME Being Human starts January 12, 2026
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Meet Laura! As a survivor of severe childhood trauma, Laura enrolled in Fern & Audrey's 1st course. Laura gives her perspective on how the course impacted her journey and prepared her for in-person time with Fern & Audrey.
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