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The Dynamic of Being Human

three simple “cards” to make the invisible more visible

Function

Protection

Function

The part of you that focuses, gets things done, and stays present to a task.

Emotion

Protection

Function

The part of you that feels: fear, sadness, joy, anger, surprise, shame, and more.

Protection

Protection

Protection

The part of you that steps in fast to keep you safe (fight, flight, freeze, fawn, fix, or figure-it-out).

These three aren’t “good” or “bad”

They are normal, necessary roles that help you navigate life. Healthy regulation isn’t about silencing any one card—it’s about learning when each role is active, why it showed up, and how to move between them with choice instead of reflex.


The language of your heart is a language of emotions, behaviors and beliefs. You were created with emotions—for a reason. You were never meant to be ruled by emotions, and you were never meant to live without them.

I love being able to better understand my own emotions and behaviors as well as those of the people I interact with.  It not only helps me with loving myself better, but also loving those who are close to me and all who God puts in my path.


M.B.

How Our Curriculum Unpacks This

Relationship First

Children (and the child-in-us) grow through safe connection. We begin with attunement—how we come close without crowding and how we repair when things rupture.

Emotion Literacy

We name emotions, locate them in the body, and practice allowing them without getting swept away. You’ll learn what each emotion is trying to do for you.

Regulation That’s Doable

We teach practical regulation that fits inside real life—breath, body, and thought tools you can use in a meeting, in the car, or at bedtime.

The Three Cards in Motion

With the Function, Emotion, and Protection cards, you’ll track your internal shifts in real time. This turns “Why am I like this?” into “Oh, this part is here to help.”

Choice After Protection

Protection is fast and often loud. We help you thank it, slow it, and choose a next step that aligns with your values—not just your reflex.

Fern and Audrey's Foundational Counseling Course

Course 1 is for everyone, but specifically for:

  • Adult survivors of severe or “unsurvivable” childhood trauma
  • Those navigating dissociation (incluDID) and complex inner systems
  • Pastors/Counselors, Helpers & Caregivers
  • Individuals from deliverance backgrounds who want full-person restoration
  • Anyone longing for a biblically grounded, human‑honoring path to wholeness

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Where do I start?

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Imagine confronting your emotional pain directly, understanding that it often stems from the beliefs you've formed about yourself through your past traumatic experiences. 

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Get ready to unravel the treasure of being human and embark on a transformative learning experience. Our next Course 1: The Treasure of ME Being Human starts January 12, 2026

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Education FAQs

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Education FAQs

What will this class help me accomplish? How long does the class take? How is the online class structured? How do the weekly small groups and monthly sessions work?

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Working with Fern & Audrey: Laura's Story

Meet Laura! As a survivor of severe childhood trauma, Laura enrolled in Fern & Audrey's 1st course. Laura gives her perspective on how the course impacted her journey and prepared her for in-person time with Fern & Audrey. 


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